Gender & Sexuality

Gender and sexuality are important parts of who we are, yet navigating them can be confusing and difficult, especially if faced with social norms and individual expectations that might not correspond with how we identify and/ or present ourselves.

One’s sex tends to refer the biology or physiology of a person, while gender refers to a person’s sense of who they are as male, female, another gender or non-binary. Sexual orientation refers to one’s preferences for sexual and emotional attraction to another gender.

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Helpful Definitions, Courtesy of HRC

Sexual orientation

An inherent or immutable enduring emotional, romantic or sexual attraction to other people.

Gender identity

One's innermost concept of self as male, female, a blend of both or neither – how individuals perceive themselves and what they call themselves. One's gender identity can be the same or different from their sex assigned at birth.

Gender expression

External appearance of one's gender identity, usually expressed through behavior, clothing, haircut or voice, and which may or may not conform to socially defined behaviors and characteristics typically associated with being either masculine or feminine.


An umbrella term for people whose gender identity and/or expression is different from cultural expectations based on the sex they were assigned at birth. Being transgender does not imply any specific sexual orientation. Therefore, transgender people may identify as straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, etc.

Gender transition

The process by which some people strive to more closely align their internal knowledge of gender with its outward appearance. Some people socially transition, whereby they might begin dressing, using names and pronouns and/or be socially recognized as another gender. Others undergo physical transitions in which they modify their bodies through medical interventions.

Gender dysphoria


Clinically significant distress caused when a person's assigned birth gender is not the same as the one with which they identify. According to the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), the term – which replaces Gender Identity Disorder – "is intended to better characterize the experiences of affected children, adolescents, and adults."

Concerns about gender and sexuality can be a challenge that sometimes leads to depression and anxiety. Exploring the fluidity of identity and sexual orientation is welcome and encouraged at Mind Body 7. Our practitioners provide an open, accepting and supportive environment coupled with expertise to help you or your child be your best self and feel comfortable in your own skin.

Kori Grillo LCSW and Stephen Lewis LMCH specialize in gender and sexuality.