Which Type of Therapy Is Right for You?
CBT, DBT, EMDR, IFS: therapy has a lot of acronyms, and it is hard to know which one fits. This guide explains what the main approaches are, how they differ, and what to expect once you begin. You do not have to choose on your own. A clinician can help you decide.
Step 1 of 3
How therapy works
The basics of therapy, and a closer look at each main approach.
Does therapy work?
Therapy can help, and it does not work for everyone. One review of 441 trials found that about 42% of people treated for major depression had at least a 50% drop in symptoms by the end of therapy. Rates for several anxiety disorders and PTSD were in the 30s. Those are averages from research studies, so your own result may be different. Missing that 50% mark does not mean a person got no benefit. Finding the best treatment may take trial and error, and one poor response does not close the door on others.
What "evidence based" means
The American Psychological Association defines evidence-based practice as combining the best available research with clinical expertise, in the context of the patient's characteristics, culture and preferences. A therapy with few trials may be unproven, which is different from being ineffective. When you see a claim about any therapy, ask whether it was tested against a comparison group, how many people took part, and whether anyone other than its promoters has studied it.
How strong is the research on each approach?
It varies a lot.
- ERP. The National Institute of Mental Health says it effectively reduces compulsive behaviors, and a published review describes it as the first-line psychotherapy for OCD. Anxiety may rise at first, and not everyone gets full relief. See what ERP involves.
- CBT. It is a well-studied option for many conditions, including anxiety and depression. It appears often partly because researchers have tested it so widely.
- ACT. It has a sizable research base, and experts read it differently. A 2020 review by ACT researchers reported that it was efficacious for every condition examined. A more skeptical 2014 meta-analysis called it "not yet well-established for any disorder." See what ACT is.
- Psychodynamic therapy. It has a real evidence base, especially for depression, though it has been studied less rigorously than CBT in some conditions. See a plain-language guide.
- EMDR and trauma-focused CBT. A 2020 analysis of 90 trials concluded that they appear most effective at reducing symptoms and improving remission in adults with PTSD. The evidence was moderate to low in quality.
- IFS. The evidence so far is a small set of early studies, and no large trial has shown that it beats an established therapy. That does not mean it cannot help you. See what IFS is.
- Somatic therapy. It is promising but not yet well proven. A 2021 review of its best-known method, Somatic Experiencing, wrote that "the current evidence base is weak." See what somatic therapy is.
A therapy's name does not tell you everything
Many therapists blend methods, and two therapists who use the word "somatic" may do quite different things. A named therapy only counts if the therapist actually does it. If your OCD treatment never involves facing a fear, you may not be getting ERP. So ask what a clinician actually does in sessions.
Weekly therapy is not a crisis service. If you are having thoughts of suicide or self-harm right now, call or text 988 (988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), call 911 or go to the nearest ER.
| Approach | What it focuses on | Style |
|---|---|---|
| CBT | Links between thoughts, feelings and behavior | Structured, skills and practice between sessions |
| DBT | Mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, relationships | Structured, skills based. Individual sessions here; we do not run a DBT group or a full DBT team |
| ACT | Changing your relationship to difficult thoughts and acting on your values | Skills based, with mindfulness |
| ERP | Gradually facing fears while resisting compulsions, for OCD | Structured, step by step |
| EMDR | Paying attention to a back-and-forth movement or sound while recalling a distressing memory | Structured, often for trauma |
| IFS | Understanding different “parts” of yourself | Exploratory, guided by the therapist |
| Psychodynamic | Emotional patterns and how the past shapes the present | Open, exploratory; can be short or long term |
| Narrative and existential | The stories you tell about your life, meaning and identity | Conversational, reflective |
| Hypnotherapy | Focused attention and suggestion to support change | Guided sessions. Offered here for ages 5 to 21 |
Exposure and response prevention (ERP)
Therapy basics
- What Is Psychotherapy and How Can It Help You?
Discover what psychotherapy is and how it supports healing, self-awareness, and growth—both in-person in Brooklyn and online at Mind Body Seven.
- Different Types of Psychotherapy Explained
Explore CBT, psychodynamic, mindfulness-based, and integrative therapy—and find which type of psychotherapy fits your path to healing.
- How Psychotherapy Changes Your Brain
- Common Myths About Psychotherapy Debunked
- The Benefits of Long-Term Psychotherapy
- How to Know If Psychotherapy Is Right for You
- Therapy 101: Breaking Down the Basics for Beginners
Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)
- Understanding CBT: A Beginner’s Guide to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is a widely used therapeutic approach. The basic idea, in layperson’s terms, is that thoughts influence emotions, and then emotions impact behavior. This idea isn’t…
- What is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy?
- The Role of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in Psychotherapy
- Understanding the Thought-Feeling Connection: The Foundation of CBT
- How CBT Therapy Rewires Thought Patterns
- Identifying and Challenging Cognitive Distortions: Common Thinking Traps That Keep Us Stuck
- Homework Assignments and Skill Practice: Why CBT Extends Beyond the Therapy Hour
- Problem-Solving Skills for Overwhelming Situations: From Chaos to Clarity
- Worry Time and Rumination Management: Taking Control of Your Racing Mind
- Relapse Prevention and Maintaining Progress: Making CBT Changes Last
- Behavioral Activation for Depression: How Small Actions Can Create Big Changes
- Activity Monitoring and Mood Tracking: Understanding Your Patterns to Create Change
- Exposure Therapy for Anxiety and Phobias: Facing Your Fears to Find Freedom
DBT and ACT
- What Is Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)?
ACT is a talk therapy that builds psychological flexibility. Learn its six core processes, what sessions involve, and what the research does and does not show.
- Introduction to Dialectical Behavior Therapy: What It Is and How It Works
- What a DBT Skills Group Covers: The Four Skill Modules
- Borderline Personality Disorder: Signs, Myths and Treatment That Helps
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) for Chronic Pain
EMDR and trauma-focused therapy
- How EMDR Works for Trauma (and Why It Feels Different From Talk Therapy)
- EMDR Treatment for PTSD
- Trauma Therapy and the Nervous System: Why Your Body Holds Stress
- Trauma Therapy in Brooklyn: How Healing Really Happens
Depth approaches
- What Is Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy?
Internal Family Systems therapy works with the "parts" of your inner life. Learn how it works, what sessions involve and how limited the research still is.
- What Is Psychodynamic Therapy? A Plain-Language Guide
Psychodynamic therapy looks at recurring patterns in how you relate to yourself and others. Here is what it is, what sessions involve and what research shows.
- Existential Therapy: What It Is and Who It Helps
- Is Psychodynamic Therapy Right for Me?
- What Narrative Therapy Is Like: A Guide to Your First Sessions
Mindfulness and mind-body
- What Is Somatic Therapy, and Is It Evidence Based?
- Mind-Body Therapy Explained
- Integrating Mindfulness and Psychotherapy for Better Results
- Mindfulness: An Essential Tool for Building Self-Compassion
- Mindfulness Increases Gray Matter Density
- The Impact of Mindfulness on Brain Function: A Comprehensive
- Embracing the Digital Era: Virtual Reality and Mind-Body Therapy
Hypnotherapy
Step 2 of 3
Comparing your options
Side-by-side comparisons, and how therapy applies to the concern that brought you here.
Start with what you are treating
A few conditions have a clearly favored therapy. For others, several therapies perform about equally. Much of this research is in adults.
| Concern | Best supported | Keep in mind |
|---|---|---|
| OCD | ERP, a specific type of CBT | General talk therapy is a different treatment, so ask for ERP by name |
| PTSD in adults | Trauma-focused therapies: cognitive processing therapy (CPT), prolonged exposure (PE), other trauma-focused CBT, and EMDR | Guidelines differ on EMDR. The VA/DoD guideline gives CPT, EMDR and PE a strong recommendation, and the UK's NICE guideline recommends EMDR for non-combat trauma. The American Psychological Association puts CPT, PE and trauma-focused CBT in its top tier and EMDR in a second tier, and found insufficient evidence that one is better when they are compared directly |
| Depression | CBT and interpersonal therapy; short-term psychodynamic therapy performed similarly to other therapies | The National Institute of Mental Health says therapy is often tried first for milder depression, while moderate or severe depression usually includes medication in the initial plan |
| Generalized anxiety | CBT; a growing body of research for ACT | ACT has less research behind it than CBT |
| Chronic insomnia | CBT for insomnia, recommended as the initial treatment for adults | Moderate-quality evidence behind a strong recommendation |
A therapy being listed does not mean it is the only option or that it will work for you. See the full condition-by-condition table. Mania, psychosis, an eating disorder with medical risk, or thoughts of suicide can all mean that a medical evaluation or a higher level of care comes before any choice of therapy style. If you are having thoughts of suicide or self-harm right now, call or text 988 (988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), call 911 or go to the nearest ER.
When the research does not pick a winner
- CBT or ACT. In studies of anxiety and depression, the two usually produce similar results overall. CBT teaches you to examine a thought. ACT teaches you to notice it and act on your values whether or not it goes away.
- CBT or psychodynamic. For depression and anxiety, research on structured, often time-limited versions suggests that outcomes are broadly similar. Critics read one key analysis as a small disadvantage for psychodynamic therapy, a reading its authors reject.
- EMDR, CPT or prolonged exposure. No test can tell you in advance which will work best for you. In most cases EMDR does not ask you to talk through the details, though you do think about the trauma in session. It does not require homework, while CPT and PE do. Prolonged exposure involves detailed talking from around session 3.
- Individual or group. For many common problems, they work about equally well in research. PTSD is an exception, where individual trauma-focused treatment is the better-supported starting point.
CBT or DBT, and what individual DBT means
As a broad rule, CBT tends to fit a specific symptom pattern, and DBT tends to fit when emotions escalate fast and feel dangerous or out of control. Standard DBT usually includes a weekly skills group. Mind Body Seven has no DBT group or full DBT team, so individual DBT here is not the same treatment as the model tested in major trials. Evidence for one-on-one skills teaching is thinner.
Ask about a full program if you have had recent suicide attempts, repeated self-harm, or frequent emergency room visits or hospital stays. If you are having thoughts of suicide or self-harm right now, call or text 988 (988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), call 911 or go to the nearest ER.
Your preference counts
Across 53 studies, people who received the kind of therapy they preferred dropped out less and did somewhat better.
Head to head
- Which Therapy Works Best for Which Condition?
A condition-by-condition guide to the therapies with the best evidence, including depression, anxiety, OCD and PTSD, plus how reliable the research really is.
- CBT vs DBT: How They Differ and Who Each Helps
CBT targets unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. DBT adds skills for intense emotions, and standard DBT includes a skills group. Compare them and decide what fits.
- CBT vs Talk Therapy: Which Is Better for Anxiety?
Not sure which to choose? Compare CBT and talk therapy for anxiety, learn which helps sooner, and how Brooklyn residents decide based on life, schedule, and capacity.
- IFS vs. CBT: How the Two Approaches Differ
IFS and CBT both help with anxiety, self-criticism and old patterns, but they work differently. Compare structure, focus and fit to see which may suit you.
- Full DBT vs. DBT-Informed Therapy: What's the Difference?
Full DBT has four parts: individual therapy, skills group, coaching and a consultation team. DBT-informed therapy uses the skills. How to tell which you need.
- CBT vs ACT: Changing Thoughts or Changing Your Relationship to Them
- EMDR vs Trauma-Focused CBT: How to Choose
- Psychodynamic Therapy vs CBT: Which Fits You?
- Individual vs Group Therapy: How to Decide
- Hypnotherapy vs Traditional Therapy: Key Differences
- Psychotherapy vs Counseling: What’s the Difference?
- Wellness Coaching vs Therapy: Which Is Right for You?
- How to Choose Between Therapy, Medication, or Both
- Online vs In-Person Psychotherapy: Pros and Cons
Therapy for anxiety and panic
- How Therapy Actually Treats Anxiety
- How Therapy Helps Rewire an Anxious Brain: A Gentle Breakdown of CBT, DBT, and More
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy For Generalized Anxiety Disorder
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Panic Disorder
- How CBT Can Help You Break the Cycle of Health Anxiety
- CBT for Anxiety Brooklyn: Tools You Can Start Using Today
- CBT Therapy for Anxiety in Brooklyn: What the Research Shows
- CBT Therapy in Brooklyn: How It Helps Anxiety, Trauma, and ADHD
- Understanding and Managing Panic Attacks: When Your Body’s Alarm System Goes Haywire
- Can Hypnotherapy Help with Anxiety?
Therapy for depression and mood
- How CBT Helps Manage Depression Symptoms
- How Therapy Helps Treat Depression: What Actually Happens in the Process
- How Psychotherapy Helps Anxiety and Depression
- Treating Bipolar Disorder with CBT
- CBT for Bipolar Disorder: What You Should Know
- The Role of Psychotherapy in Preventing Bipolar Relapse
- Treating Postpartum Depression with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
- CBT for Seasonal Affective Disorder
Therapy for trauma, OCD and other concerns
- How Psychotherapy Supports Trauma Healing
- Can Trauma Therapy Help Anxiety and Depression?
- The Role of Hypnotherapy in Trauma Healing
- Mindfulness: Effective Treatment for Trauma
- Why Talking About It Can Make OCD Worse
- CBT-I: The Gold Standard in Insomnia Treatment
- Hypnotherapy for Insomnia: Does It Work?
- Stress Treatment Through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- How Hypnotherapy Helps with Stress Management
- CBT for Grief: How Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Helps Rebuild Stability
- Prolonged Grief Therapy (PGT): The Gold Standard Treatment Explained
- The Role of CBT in Treating Disordered Eating
- CBT: Effective Treatment for Eating Disorders?
- How Therapy Supports Addiction Recovery
- How Hypnotherapy Supports Addiction Recovery
- Does Hypnotherapy Really Work for Weight Loss?
- How Hypnotherapy Supports Confidence and Self-Esteem
- Psychotherapy and Cancer
Couples and family therapy
- When to Consider Couples Therapy
- The Gottman Method for Couples Therapy
- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Couples in Brooklyn, NY: Repairing Connection, Not Just Conflict
- Imago Relationship Therapy and the Imago Dialogue
- The Benefits of Long-Term Couples Therapy
- Debunking Myths About Relationship Therapy
- The Difference Between Relationship Coaching and Couples Therapy
- The Role of Family Therapy in Relationship Health
Affirming care
Step 3 of 3
Getting started in therapy
What a first session is like, how to choose a therapist, and how to tell whether it is working.
What to say when you reach out
Name your main concern in plain words. "I cannot stop checking the stove" leads somewhere different from "I have felt flat for a year." Mention every concern at the start, including substance use and sleep, since they can change the order of treatment. To begin, request a consultation, and the intake team confirms fit, scheduling and costs.
Questions to ask a therapist
The National Institute of Mental Health suggests asking several of these. A good therapist should be able to answer them.
- What is the rationale for this therapy, and what is its evidence base?
- What training have you had in this specific method?
- Do you recommend a specific time frame or number of sessions?
- How will progress be assessed?
- What happens if I am not improving?
How often, and for how long?
Most people start therapy once a week. Many focused therapies last around three months, while long-standing or complex problems can take a year or more. There is no universal number. Agree on a plan with your therapist and a date to review it. For example, you might step back after 8 to 12 sessions and ask what is working. That is a common-sense checkpoint, and it is not a clinical rule. This guide to frequency and length gives typical ranges.
If it does not feel right
Say it plainly and early, in a sentence or two: "Something about our sessions is not working for me, and I would like to talk about it." A good therapist should treat this as useful information. Here is how to give honest feedback. If you are not getting better after what feels like a reasonable time, NIMH advises talking to your therapist and considering other professionals or approaches. You are allowed to change therapists.
When you may be done
You and your therapist decide together when you are ready, usually by checking your progress against your goals. Raise it while you still have sessions left, and read how to know you are ready. Ending therapy is not a one-way door, and you can contact your therapist again. Ending therapy and stopping medication are separate decisions. Keep your prescriber in the loop, and do not stop or change a medication on your own.
Cost
Frequency affects cost, so talk about money early. Mind Body Seven is an out-of-network practice, and it does not accept Medicare or Medicaid, including managed Medicaid. For many clients with Cigna, Aetna or BCBS plans it files out-of-network claims, and superbills are available in the patient portal for other carriers such as UnitedHealthcare. A Good Faith Estimate is available on request. See fees and insurance.
If your safety is in question, do not wait for your next session. If you are having thoughts of suicide or self-harm, call or text 988 (988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), call 911 or go to the nearest ER.
Your first sessions
- What to Expect in Your First Therapy Session
Feeling nervous about your first therapy session? Learn what to expect, how to prepare, and how to feel more comfortable as you begin therapy.
- CBT Therapy Brooklyn: What a Typical Session Looks Like
- What Happens in Your First Anxiety Therapy Session: A Simple, Honest Walkthrough
- Trauma Therapy Brooklyn: What to Expect in Your First Sessions
- What to Expect in Your First Hypnotherapy Session
- Preparing for Your First Therapy Session for Panic — What to Know, What to Bring, What to Expect
- What to Expect in Your First Eating Disorder Therapy Session
- Starting OCD Treatment in Brooklyn: What the First Month Looks Like
- Therapy in Spanish: What to Expect
- Terapia en español en Brooklyn: qué esperar de la primera consulta
Choosing a therapist and staying on track
- How to Choose the Right Therapist in New York
Learn how to choose the right therapist in New York—find a good fit, build trust, and get matched with a Mind Body Seven clinician who understands you.
- What to Do If Therapy Isn’t Working
Are you feeling stuck in your sessions? Learn why therapy isn’t helping sometimes and discover practical steps to reassess your mental health treatment options.
- How Often Should You Go to Therapy, and for How Long?
- How to Give Your Therapist Honest Feedback
- How to Know When You’re Ready to End Therapy
- Finding the Right Therapist in Brooklyn: Questions to Ask Before You Start
- How Therapy Goals Are Set and Measured
- How Long Does CBT Therapy Take to Work?
- How Long Does Anxiety Therapy Take? A Brooklyn Perspective
- When One Partner Wants Therapy and the Other Doesn’t
Services and practical information
More guides
- Getting Started With Mental Health Care
- A Patient’s Guide to Psychiatric Medication
- A Guide to Integrative Psychiatry
- A Patient’s Guide to Ketamine and Spravato
- A Parent’s Guide to Child and Teen Mental Health
Frequently asked questions
Do I have to know which type of therapy I want?
No. Many people start by describing what is going on. A clinician can then explain which approaches may fit.
Is CBT always the best choice?
No. CBT has a large evidence base, but several therapies perform similarly for depression, and some conditions have more specific treatments. Your preferences and past experience also count.
Can I have therapy while taking psychiatric medication?
Often, yes. Psychotherapy can be used alongside medication, and many people do both. Talk with your prescriber and therapist so they can coordinate, and do not change or stop a medication on your own.
What if I have more than one concern?
This is common. Clinicians usually consider which problem is causing the most harm or blocking progress, then plan from there.
Can I switch approaches if one is not helping?
Often, yes. Bring it up with your therapist first. They may adapt their approach or refer you to someone who works differently.
Does Mind Body Seven run therapy groups?
Please ask the intake team whether any group is offered. DBT at the practice is individual only.
Does this research apply to children and teens?
Much of this research is in adults. Children and teens may need different formats, often with parents involved, so ask a child-focused clinician.